Men are as unpredictable as life itself and women in love or relationships all over the world complain that their men start losing interest in them after a couple “honeymoon months”. First thing that comes into any girl’s mind is “He is not just that into you anymore”!
This is the very moment of time in your relationship when you start throwing tantrums at him, asking him to give you more time, or confronting him about why he is losing interest in you. What good comes out of it though? You may even end up a relationship prematurely because of it!
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Love Refreshing Tips for Women
I’m discussing some handy love tips and tricks for women that will not only help you ease your tensions about losing your special one, but will also add the magic back into the relationship. Now ladies this is the first thing that can be really helpful; you can never, ever let your guy know exactly what you are thinking and planning to ask him. The best trick, don’t ask! Try to find out through other means.
Give Him Some Space
Relationships can get really stuffy at times and this tends to get taxing for the male race (they being the ones who cannot deal with stress or girlish melodrama routines). As a result, they want out, even if it’s just for a while.
You need to understand that your man needs his space. So whether it’s your boyfriend or husband who has been behaving awkward recently, let him be for a while. You need to deal it very balanced way. You don’t want him feel like he is confined but he should never forget his responsibilities towards you as well. he’ll be with his friends, grab a few drinks, play some pool, watch some **** videos, bitch about their bosses and then come back to you; With a fresh mind and a renewed perspective.
Stop Playing James Bond
Researches have revealed that when women try and ask men too many questions and start doubting them too much and behaving rude with them just because of their perceptions, it’s a major turnoff for men. So you have got to understand that if he wants to cheat on you, he will, and you will find out soon enough. Being claustrophobic about losing your man and taking desperate measures to avoid it will only lead to a disastrous end.
Spice Up Your Love Game
Are you one of those women who have seriously let go of themselves after getting into a serious relationships? You let your body hair grow till you have to go to party wearing skirts? Or do you never dress up well and have given up on your high heels, your favorite red lip-gloss?
Convert yourself into that magnetic and frisky bombshell that fascinated his entire nerve system when he fell in love with you. Men are visual creatures. You can talk to them about things all you want but if you really want to grab their attention, show them something.
Emotional Needs Of Your Man
No matter how strong and sorted your guy behaves, everyone has their in-securities and concerns. A tiff in the office, monotony, responsibility pressure, criticism by peers, all this might tend to bog down your man’s emotional strength at times.
This is where you need to be his pillar of support. It’s not always about you and how you need him to support you. When it’s your turn, you need to be a friend, a philosopher and a guide to him as well.
Keep Away Things That Annoy Him
When you have been with someone for a long time, you know what pleases him and what annoys him. Wouldn’t it be so much better if you tried to keep away things, people, situations and chores that tend to trigger irritation in your man. Give him a little extra attention at times, so that the favour returns back to you and you two can be in perfect harmony forever.
You need to make sure that you never stop loving and pampering yourself, because then, and only then will he be attracted to you and stay connected to you on an emotional as well as physical level. It is essential that you find common factors that bring you together and try to always highlight them to the beat to add the flavour and zing in your relationship.